I have been carrying a secret in my heart. Something about me that I have tucked away. Something I do, when others are not around. So, here it goes: I am a tree hugger. I hug trees. I go into the forest, I scan my surroundings, look left and right, try to pick up any sounds of snapping branches or the sound of approaching footsteps on soil and fallen leaves, and when the coast is clear, I go all in. I hug trees left and right. It’s the most wonderful feeling in the world. To sense phantom arms wrapping around me, being bundled and held in a cloak of loving energy. I feel the tree hugging me, just as I am hugging the tree. It’s a wonderful exchange of energy. Something that has enriched my life tremendously. I laugh at the times when I needed alcohol or drugs to feel bliss or ecstasy, now I just hug trees.
I don’t just hug trees. I talk to them. I greet them. I introduce myself. I ask questions. Sometimes I high-five trees. And most of all, I admire trees. I stand in front of them and appreciate their uniqueness, their beauty, the miracle of their being. The structure and feel of their bark, the shape and colour of their leaves, the pattern of branches going upwards or downwards. I find trees so incredibly beautiful, mighty, and it brings me great joy. So why was I in the tree hugging closet, you might ask? Well, let me ask you: have you ever seen anyone hugging a tree? And if you have or if you would see it, what would you think? Would you laugh? Would you think that person has been dropped on the head as a child? Would you think someone who believes trees are alive, beings just like us, and talk to them, that they have utterly lost their minds? We have long lived in a society that saw the living world as things, that saw the earth as a thing that we could exploit for our own benefit. Not too very long ago, people who went out in the woods to connect with nature were burned at the stake for witch activities. Nowadays such tactics are not allowed anymore, but shame is a very effective tool to keep people from behaving a certain way.